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Joe Klemz, MSW, LICSW
My combination of lived experience and professional training shapes how I show up: transparent, authentic, and deeply committed to safe, unarmored relationships. As an EMDR therapist, consultant, and founder of Real Life Counseling, my passion is helping people heal, grow, and live connected—both with themselves and others.

MY STORY


For the past 20+ years, I’ve worked in the mental health field, combining lived experience with professional practice. This mix shapes how I show up as a therapist, consultant, and trainer. My approach is unusual in its level of transparency: I don’t hide behind jargon or distance. I bring insight, humility, and honesty into the room. Clients describe me as perceptive, adaptive, and unassuming—but what I value most is building a space where judgment and expectation fall away.

I believe therapy isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up fully human. I model that by being open about my own experiences, biases, and fears—and by practicing repair when I get it wrong. My “superpower” is the willingness to hold both vulnerability and strength at the same time, so clients and colleagues know they don’t have to carry their struggles alone.

 As the founder of Real Life Counseling in Vancouver, Washington, I lead a team of innovative practitioners providing more than 40,000 hours of mental health services each year. Across two decades in community mental health, I’ve built a practice rooted in compassion, candor, and accountability—for both clients and the colleagues I mentor and consult with.

Outside of work, I’m a husband, father, and business owner who finds grounding in the woods and on my family’s inland northwest property. I’m passionate about hiking, exploring new trails and lakes, and getting my hands dirty with hobby homesteading. Looking ahead, I’m preparing to launch an EMDR training program for therapists, expanding the circle of healing beyond my own practice.

 

 

Why I am a Therapsit?

I know trauma from the inside out. Growing up, I lived through more than 38 foster care placements. That experience as a trauma survivor gave me an unshakable commitment to creating relationships that are safe, authentic, and unarmored—both with ourselves and with others.

My Training

 


I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Idaho, Washington, and Oregon, with 25 years of experience helping adults and teens heal from trauma and repair attachment wounds. I earned my Master’s in Social Work from Eastern Washington University and graduated magna cum laude with my Bachelor’s in Social Work. I am an EMDR Certified Therapist, EMDRIA Approved Consultant, and EMDR HAP Facilitator, with advanced certification from the Boston Trauma Center—founded by Dr. Bessel van der Kolk—in Understanding and Treating Complex Trauma in Youth, Adults, and Families.

Currently, I am an EMDR facilitator through the non profit and humanitarian organization EMDR HAP, Humanitarian Assistance program. I also engage in ongoing community-based training in sexual trauma and the intersections of trauma, sexuality, and intimacy.

FAVE SEASON:

winter


HOBBIES:

snowboard & hiking


FAVE VACATION:

tropical islands

FAVE DRINK:

coffee


CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT:

coffee


FAMILY:

wife & 4 kids

Joseph Klemz

ABOUT JOE

A real relationship. Room to be human.

Hi, I’m Joe. I am a trauma survivor. I’m a Certified EMDR Therapist, an EMDRIA Approved Consultant, and a member of the EMDR HAP training faculty, where I help train the next generation of EMDR therapists.

My path to becoming a therapist wasn’t purely academic. More than two decades of clinical work later, my lived experience still shapes how I practice: with honesty, compassion, and respect for the person in front of me.

Certified EMDR Therapist • EMDRIA Approved Consultant • EMDR HAP Training Faculty
Licensed in Idaho, Washington & Oregon

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Joe Klemz, EMDR therapist

Therapy works best when the relationship is real.

You don’t need to have the right words or a clear plan before we meet. We can begin with what feels difficult now, what you hope will change, and what helps you feel supported.

My approach centers on collaboration, honesty, and respect for your pace. Together, we’ll make room for your experience and talk through whether weekly EMDR therapy or an intensive fits your needs.

Support that fits your life

Weekly therapy offers an ongoing space for our work together. EMDR Intensives offer focused time through a four-hour mini or a customized one-to-three-day format, with separate evaluation and treatment-planning sessions beforehand.

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Let’s start with a conversation.

A free 15-minute consultation is a chance to ask questions and see whether working together feels like a fit.

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